I am one of the "one or two pistoleros" that JohnnyMac was referring to.
)I swear by my Sig P220. Expensive, but how much is your life worth? Mine has the standard rail (for the useless lasers, lights, etc you don't need) and the tritium sights standard. BTW - I also have hands on the small side. This masterpiece rides in my Tagua leather daily.
Some shooters are grip-o-philes, some are sight-o-philes, and some are trigger-o-files. I believe the Sig can satisfy all three. If you want perfection in a 9mm, go to the CZ-75.