I've collected an unseemly amount of RF adapters and connectors over the years. I have a "kit" in a parts box that I keep in the shack, and a smaller one that goes with my radio gear into the field. The duplicates and really odd ones reside in drawers, sorted by type. For connecting HT's to a larger antenna, I've taken to using the "HT Saver" types with a short cable between the SMA and the UHF or other connector, it takes the strain off the connector on the radio and prevents breakage, as most radio connectors are just soldered onto the PCB. Not the cheapest option, especially for quality ones, but better than snapping the SMA connector off the radio in an emergency. This is especially true if you're giving the radio to someone who doesn't have a lot of experience.
I'm an antenna enthusiast, I've tried most of the major designs, and some strange ones too. For most, I'd recommend a J-pole type made from 300 Ohm twinlead, I even have the numbers around here someplace for cutting one to go inside PVC pipe so it still functions as intended. I had one on my chimney for a long time, got great performance and I think I might have had a couple dollars invested. Nothing wrong with a 1/4 wave ground plane, for 2 meters I use uncoated silicon bronze brazing rods for the radials, they hold up fairly well even in a decent ice storm, and they can be bent back into shape afterwards.
For a directional antenna, I'm a huge fan of WA4VJB's "Cheap Yagis". I'm down to the last one I made 10 years ago, and I need to make more soon. Probably make a short video to describe my own method of building them. Huge performance for a couple dollars and a little time. I've even made a phasing harness to stack 2 of them, did really well in a couple VHF contests with them. Here is some more information about them:
http://fredspinner.com/W0FMS/CheapYagi/vjbcy.htmlhttp://www.repeater-builder.com/antenna/pdf/cheap-yagis.pdfThis is my current go-to field VHF antenna:
http://arrowantennas.com/arrowii/146-4ii.html. Definitely not the cheapest option, but I got mine new in the package at a hamfest for $25. I painted mine OD green (like most things I own!) and I also picked up the mast clamp for it. I keep it in a bag with some coax that can be put in the car or strapped to the side of my pack.