I don't think I'd go for a VP45, as I already have a USP 45. The USP 45 handles very well, and it has minimal recoil for a .45. The only reason the USP 45 isn't my EDC gun is the weight, and I have a light attached too, which makes it difficult to conceal. The VP9 is very controllable recoil wise, compared to say a Kel-Tec PF9.
And Jojo, I'm just a civilian who is trying to survive whatever comes my way. I do train occasionally with my wife and our sons. If the weather is decent this weekend, maybe we'll celebrate the holiday weekend practicing a bit, but my wife doesn't tolerate cold weather very well. She's definitely a warm weather shooter.