This is how I do it. I'm been "kinda" successful.
I figure out how much of their head is in the sand. Depending on that I take different approaches like:
> One of the spouses is against prepping but the other wants to start. I talk about what my wife
and I have accomplished when both are around. In most cases it has been the wife that didn't
want to prep. That is where my wife comes in. She speaks matter of factly and then lets it go.
More times then not the wife contacts mine and asks more questions. Many times they just run
into each other at Rite Aid/ Grocery store and the conversation continues.
Weapons are a REAL touchy issue. I women down the street and I got into a prepping
conversation while I was stacking fire wood. I got her e-mail account and sent her my wife and
my basic food prep list. She was stoked and went to the Bishop House with us once and is
totally on board. Great...but...once I brought up defense she was adamant that the police and or
army would protect them and the neighborhood. I jokingly debated with her and since then she
hasn't spoken to us. With that said, I did get an e-mail from her husband asking: "If
you were to buy one gun what would you get?" I replied, shootgun with interchangeable barrels
like a Mossberg. We will see.
> I have given several lectures sponsored by the local RI Tea Party on prepping. They have been
very well attended 25 -30 folks. In almost every case the folks who attend are spouses. In
almost every case one of the spouses were dragged to the lecture. In almost every case the
spouses who were not into it at the beginning of the lecture left with free literature I supplied
and many have contacted me for more info via e-mail.
I think that what wins them over is the interaction of 25+ supporting folks. "Yup, we are not
crazy."
> I am wotking with a former boss of mine to put a company together. He is a staunch liberal and
Barry supporter. He knows I am a prepper and gun owner. He use to joke with me and I kept
smiling and defending my family's decision in prepping.
One day I picked him up and we went to lunch together. In the back of my cab there was about
$200- worth of food purchased from BJ's and he asked about it and I told him AGAIN what my
family thinks is going to happen. Well at the end of the lunch he looked me square in the eyes
and asked me what I thought was going to happen. You guys know my feeling's on this subject
but rather then scare him off completely I gave him a best to worst scenario and told him I was
in the middle.
Then we spoke about what food to buy and how much. I basically got a commitment to buy 6
months worth of food. Everytime I see him he says something like, "I got one month put
away."... "I got two months put away." Just for kicks and giggles on my way to deer camp I
stopped by his makeshift office and showed him my tricked out AR-15. He was excited to see it
and asked good questions. I will continue to work on him.
TG, I guess you just can't give up on folks. I also have learned that sometimes you have to change tactics. Not everyone responds the same way. For everybody you can talk into putting preps away you are helping your fellow man.