How did you meet your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend?

[mountainredneck2051]

I'm going to offer up advice based on how I roll, which may be completely off base for the chicks y'all are talking up.

Friend zone or not, if a chick has any interest in you, there's always an opportunity to relocate from the friend zone to a warmer region down south, but it all depends on timing.  If the chick you like is actually worth her salt as a friend, she will shy away from the idea of a romantic relationship with you, because she values the friendship too much to risk it.  With that said, the number one thing you shouldn't do, is tell her how you feel or talk about having a romantic relationship with her.  Asking results in a yes or no answer, and as long as she's clear headed and in control, she'll probably say no. 

Here's what you do:
alcohol 

fixed it for ya

[JohnyMac]

Lets reel it back in folks. The subject line is: How did you meet your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend? I thought the subject would be fun not become so cerebral.

This subject is going off in a weird direction.

[hjmoosejaw]

Here's some advice for you younger guys. Through my years of being around the fairer sex, I've learned that the ladies don't like for you to just rush into the subject of sex. They like for you to take time to get to know them first. They seem to like nice conversation, and like when you show an interest in the things they like. So if you see a lady that you would like to get to know, spark up a conversation. Just something random is fine. What I do, is say, "Excuse me, Do you like apples?" She'll say yes or no. Then I say, " Good, do you wanna f@#K?"

[JohnyMac]

hj,  [img]http://www.arrse.co.uk/at

[Alex1992]

I'm like that hj I prefer to get into her heart than into her bedroom so thumbs up for you  [URL=http://www.smileyvault.co

[hjmoosejaw]

Just in case. My above post was tongue in cheek, to be humorous. I've said it to people before, and it got laughs. So I thought I'd share it.

[thatGirl]

Just in case. My above post was tongue in cheek, to be humorous. I've said it to people before, and it got laughs. So I thought I'd share it.

I laughed my ass off, HJ! [URL=http://www.smileyvault.co

 

[CrookedSights]

Mountains on the right track, take a trick out of the ovarian kind's playbook and ply her with liquor, make baby, drop to one knee and say you gotta do it for the baby then boom till death do you part. Or just start treating her like shit, that seems to drop the panties for some reason. Sound advice from years of federally funded scientific observation.  [URL=http://www.smileyvault.co

In my experience if you're in the friend zone you fucked up somewhere along the way. The only successful way to get out of it that I've seen is to charge the hill, you may get cut down, you may take the hill. Either way you won't have to sit there watching D-bag after D-bag occupy the trench.

[crudos]

Mountains on the right track, take a trick out of the ovarian kind's playbook and ply her with liquor, make baby, drop to one knee and say you gotta do it for the baby then boom till death do you part. Or just start treating her like shit, that seems to drop the panties for some reason. Sound advice from years of federally funded scientific observation. 

In my experience if you're in the friend zone you fucked up somewhere along the way. The only successful way to get out of it that I've seen is to charge the hill, you may get cut down, you may take the hill. Either way you won't have to sit there watching D-bag after D-bag occupy the trench.

lol karma given dude. 

[whatshername]

High school sweethearts
Teen pregnancy case
Part of the 1% that doesn't have repeat children as a teen.
Part of the 3% that stay together past five years after a teen pregnancy.

How cute!
Sounds a lot like my 'how I met my ball & chain' story!

[Reaver]

High school sweethearts
Teen pregnancy case
Part of the 1% that doesn't have repeat children as a teen.
Part of the 3% that stay together past five years after a teen pregnancy.

How cute!
Sounds a lot like my 'how I met my ball & chain' story!

That's because I am your ball and chain wife!

[whatshername]

That's because I am your ball and chain wife!

Ah, yes!

[Buck Naked]

I know this sounds pretty cheesy, but I met mine at the dog park.  She hated me at first because my dogs were always messing with hers.... One marriage and a new baby later I think she got over it.

[Colombo]

Met my wife at my future brothers in laws junkyard. I was living there in all my single guy with over a hundred guns and assorted tools everywhere glory. Took death to part us, temporarily.

[whatshername]

The idea is, you need to build the sexual tension without scaring her off.  You also want to start a physical relationship by taking advantage of the primitive female desire to feel protected and make babies (without actually making babies ), in a way that seems spontaneous so she has no time to think about it and talk herself out of it.  Once all of that has happened, behave however you always have with her as a friend, but be a little nicer and show a little more interest in her so she knows that nothing has changed with your friendship and that you are stand-up dude, boyfriend material as well.

Exactly, I don't believe I could have said this any better myself. This is the best piece of advice if you want out of that 'friend zone'.

I like how you said ' in a way that seems spontaneous so she has no time to think about it and talk herself out of it' because it is SO true! You want to make it so there is no way for her deny she wants you as much as you want her. You have to lay it on her and just do it!

  Reaver 

[Kentactic]

I think im gonna join Eharmony. Shitty idea?

[Deathstyle]

I thought thats what this thread was?

[Kentactic]

I thought thats what this thread was?

lol... If SP was a dating site it would fail horribly. Male to Female ratio is horrible.

[crudos]

I thought thats what this thread was?

lol... If SP was a dating site it would fail horribly. Male to Female ratio is horrible.

Complete sausage-fest.

[whatshername]

I thought thats what this thread was?

HA!

[thatGirl]

I thought thats what this thread was?

lol... If SP was a dating site it would fail horribly. Male to Female ratio is horrible.

Complete sausage-fest.

I suppose this is a dating site of sorts, definitely some bromance in the air...

Men seeking men to discuss survival fashion wear, beard grooming, DIY crafts, and food preservation while stroking each other's gun boners-- short and long barrels welcome (no-homo)

-STRAIGHTprep

BTW single guys- see if your local University has a forestry program or check out meetup.com for outdoors activities that draw outdoorsy folks.  I'm not sure there are a lot of women that come to prepping on their own without being coaxed/nagged incessantly by a boyfriend or husband , but it's an easy conversion if you start with the right kinda woman  [URL=http://www.smileyvault.co 

[JohnyMac]

Great suggestion (s) TG!

One quick comment here from old JohnyMac.

Decide if you want to meet someone for some laughs and fun or you want to meet someone who will be a life partner.

I life partner will bring laughs and fun too, along with some tears and hard work. All more rewarding that a quick slap and tickle.

It's always a lot more fun and rewarding climbing that mountain with a friend than doing it by ones self.

[mountainredneck2051]

BTW single guys- see if your local University has a forestry program or check out meetup.com for outdoors activities that draw outdoorsy folks.  I'm not sure there are a lot of women that come to prepping on their own without being coaxed/nagged incessantly by a boyfriend or husband , but it's an easy conversion if you start with the right kinda woman

one thing to remember, forestry/university girls are 99.9% complete tree hugging liberals

i actually saw a girl bagged her shit to pack it out

[Kentactic]

Yeah university girls are a no go for me. It drives me insane when i see a girls profile requiring guys with 4 year degrees and above. Not because i dont have one but because you just know they are brainwashed and will be fighting the liberal fight until the day they die. Why would a person REQUIRE that their potential partners be massively in debt and poorly educated. I run from college girls.

[Alex1992]

Same here Kentatic college girls are good for one night  but for life hell no bad idea