I, also being a wide-hoofed individual, have never found a remedy for the problem which you speak. In fact, I've NEVER found a pair of hard-toed footwear that works for me. On any job that ever required it, I would just tell a little white lie about it.... no one ever checked. I'd like to have some hard-toed footwear, but I don't think it's possible for people like us. I've learned my lesson and am not going to screw my feet up by wearing cramped footwear.